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Four Generations

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We're having Danish relatives visiting these days. Above, from the left, is my mother ('mor' of the comments), Hanne, her niece/my cousin (via my mother's sister), Hanne's daughter Christina and the little guy in the stroller is Christina's son, Sebastian. Photo taken by Janne at Niagara Falls.

And just because he's one of the cutest kids I've seen in a while, here's a close-up:


Recovery

When I was a little girl, my uncle Poul used to call me Krudtirøv.It means – very literally translated – gunpowder-in-arse.I moved fast.Still do.For me, Instant gratification isn’t fast enough.I’ve often said that if there’s such a thing as karma and reincarnation, my task in this life is to learn patience.I’m not doing very well with the lesson.
Recovery’s an odd thing.No, not that kind of recovery, by which I mean the addictive one, although I suspect that’s plenty odd, too.I’m talking about something as basic as a physical comeback.My life was eroded slowly, by bits and pieces and now I’m working at getting it back.It’s been slow going, often too slow for my taste.It goes in fits and starts and plateaus.I have to remember to slow down, be mindful of my damaged body, listen to it and work well within my limits.Because if I don’t, I injure myself.
Seems like the injuries come in fits and starts, too.I’m starting to realize that there’s a pattern for when I wreck myself.It comes after a…

One of Those Days

Yesterday, things were OK at first and then they went spectacularly in the crapper.Well, that’s a bit of an exaggeration – my grandfather used to say “it’s a bad storyteller who can’t improve upon the story”.More or less directly translated from the Danish, so pardon the slight inelegance of the saying.“Det er en daarlig fortaeller som ikke kan goere en historie bedre” sounds much better, but I suspect very few of you would understand it.
Got my place cleaned with no incidents.Then I left the house.That was my first mistake.Clearly, I should have hermitted.Yes, it’s a verb.In my world, anyway.
Go to get my shot, get in the elevator.Elevator gets stuck between ground and second floor.Did I mention I’m claustrophobic?I try to not hyperventilate (mostly unsuccessfully) as I’m stuck for what seems like days (in reality, more like 10 minutes).Wait at doctor’s for shot, she runs late, have to come back.Pop to grocery store to pick up jam – my favourite jam.Jam that’s not so sweet you get insu…

One Must Suffer for One's Art

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I almost got run over by a car taking this shot. It was worth the danger, I think. Easily one of the coolest hood ornaments I've seen in a while.

Another Big Brother Post

Tonight is the finale of Big Brother 6 – arguably the best Big Brother of the bunch (and sure, if you consider the first season, really not a difficult feat to accomplish, but nonetheless, this one kicked arse).The Fiendship-Sovereignty battle, see-sawing every week, kept me on tenterhooks and thoroughly addicted.
There was Kaysar (swoon), Cappy with his ‘roid rage and delusions of grandeur (and who “doesn’t regret anything he did – it’s just who he is”, despite being forcibly restrained from starting a fistfight.Great role model to your kids, dude), Janey – pretending to be a ditz, but one of the best reality show contestants I’ve seen in a while, targeted for eviction almost from the word ‘go’, but still managed to be in the final three (and author of the classic line ‘Bye Bye, Bitches!’).There was Yapril, gossipy, prone to weeping and owner of the worst cry-face I’ve ever seen, Beau… er…(I’ve got nutthin’)… Beau… um…winner of Best (and Most Frequent) Squeal Award, Michael – booted e…

I Don't Make These Things Up

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On my birthday, I started the day being given a beautiful bouquet of wildflowers by my morning attendant.Maria’s a wonderfully sweet woman, originally from Mexico, and she accompanied the flowers with a Mexican birthday song.We put the bouquet in a vase and although flowers normally make me wheeze (damned asthma), these didn’t.What they did seem to do was make my sinuses… er… go into overproduction.Niagara Falls down the back of my throat.Love that post-nasal drip.So I asked my mother if they could come live with her and I’d visit them. I did take a picture of them before they left my house:



Nice, eh? (please ignore the clutter. I'm thinking about cleaning)

The next day, when I called my mother, she’d developed Niagara symptoms, along with a set of eyes that looked as if she’d been crying for weeks.After some discussion, we hit upon the flowers as likely culprits (neither of us had been up long, it took a while) and out they went.

Later that day, I wondered idly what ragweed looked…

Silliness

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A recap of the weekend’s sillier moments…
Friday evening, I was watching a movie and suddenly, out of the corner of my eye, I saw a red dot dancing on the chair beside me.These are the thoughts that went through my head in rapid succession:
1. I’m having a stroke.
2. No, that looks like the red dot from a sniper’s rifle.
3. I’M GONNA BE SHOT BY A SNIPER!
I have a bit of a vivid imagination…Turns out some idiot living in the building facing my livingroom had gotten himself one of those laser-pointing thingies and was amused by invading my privacy.Or so I rationalized.
The next day after a fantastic dinner at my mother's, John and I attempted to re-create his halluc… er, idea that Janne’s wearing Homer Simpson’s head under her shirt:

It's a work in progress...
Although I was busy looking at her mid-section and can't say for sure, I believe Janne lived through this moment as a practise for having children. I'm pretty sure there was eye-rolling.

Everything

In December of 2004, I looked into the abyss and the abyss looked back.
It’s hard to write about this – doing so with any emotional truth means going back to a place I’d rather never feel again – but there’s something I’ve wanted to say for a long time and it needs a bit of a back story.
Pain is an oddly isolating thing.It can’t be shared with other people, can’t be described in any way that comes close to communicating what it feels like.It isolates geographically and socially – it hurts too much to go out, spending time with friends takes too much energy and when touching hurts, displays of affection do also.When it gets loud enough, you lose your ability to think and focus.
Early on in 2004, when my arthritis was flaring, my rheumatologist and I decided it was time for the big guns.The biggest, in fact.Enbrel is new and expensive and costs about $23,000 a year, so I needed help from the Trillium Drug Program.When the government gives you tax payers’ money, they’re careful.So as my app…

Bump Watch - 21 Weeks

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Holy growth spurt, TinkMama!

Helpless

I’ve always had an affinity for New Orleans.Its history, its culture, its music, its food, its insistence that if we’d remember that life is for living, not just hard work, then maybe we’d all be enjoying the ride a bit more.For 20 years now, I’ve known that some day, I’d go there and immerse myself in it all.Laissez les bon temps rouler and I’d roll with it and be home.
These days, I am heartbroken.
I search out the news and get more and more angry and more and more sad.New Orleans, the city of my heart, is devastated.The Gulf Coast region is devastated.People are attempting to find meaning in the meaningless by blaming the victim: Katrina was god’s comment on the acceptance of gays or a cleansing of “sin city” and those stories make me angrier and sadder.Tales of divine vengeance don’t help in times like these, except to serve as a balm for our collective pain – if they brought it on themselves, I don’t have to feel so bad.I can wash my hands of it, I can pass the stranger in the ditc…

That's Just Ridiculous

Yesterday, at the store, I saw a display of Hallowe'en candy. Hallowe'en candy, I ask you!

I've just gotten my head around the back-to-school and the fall things and although it prompts some quietly desperate reaction (i.e., loud screaming), I'm OK. Mostly. But HALLOWE'EN??? On September 4?? Before Labour Day?

I think there should be a rule. Like wearing white. Can't wear white and display Hallowe'en candy at the same time. Actually, I think it's a Public Health matter. You're not sure? Don't tell me you didn't wince and feel like crying when you read the first sentence.


Tinks Update

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In alphabetical order (and how cool is it that there's a sufficient number to do it alphabetically?), I'm pleased to give a more detailed introduction to my nephew Liam:



and my niece Morgan:



I think they have the Andersen cheekbones...